In the USA, 1 in 3 women and 1 in 4 men have experienced some form of domestic violence by their partner. Unfortunately, that statistic doesn't represent all people, and it's safe to assume that the fear of reporting domestic abuse stops the statistics from being more accurate. In the realm of domestic violence awareness, language is a powerful tool that can shape perceptions, challenge stereotypes, and empower survivors.
In this article, we're going to talk about the ways in which words and narratives influence our understanding of domestic violence. We hope to offer a better understanding of how strong words can be, how they can be applied to comprehend the issue of domestic violence, and how the language we use could help others release themselves from potentially terrible situations.
The language we use in the context of domestic violence can have related legal implications, so it's hugely important to use the right terminology and vocabulary when reporting on it. First, it starts with understanding the different types.
According to Women's Aid, domestic violence can include but is not limited to:
It is worth mentioning here that everyone's experience of abuse is different and personal. However, having a base knowledge of the different terminology is crucial to support those who experience it. Without this understanding, you might inadvertently use assumptive or insensitive language, which can further isolate survivors and hinder the effectiveness of support systems.
The language that we use in the context of domestic violence also holds immense power when it comes to legal implications. Precise and well-articulated language is crucial for several reasons:
Language shapes perceptions and attitudes toward domestic violence. The choice of words can either stigmatize or destigmatize the issue. Here are a few dos and don'ts.
Navigating domestic abuse with our words can be tricky, and the language we choose isn't always appropriate, even if we believe otherwise. Perhaps at the very core of choosing vocabulary is the concept of “'lifting up,” not “pulling down.” By embracing survivor-centered and non-blaming vocabulary, you can cultivate or at least start the discussion of domestic abuse with a lot less hesitation and fear. Here are a few examples:
While these changes to vocabulary may seem tough or small, remember that every slight adjustment in your words can make a difference. When uplifting someone, you make them feel safe and confident; domestic abuse requires this to truly help those affected.
List of supportive educational resources for using inclusive terminology.
The terminology we use matters. Explore mindful language with these resources.
List of educational guides that aim to use inclusive language and terminology when talking about domestic violence and abuse to young people and adults.
DV experiences are individual and diverse, so the response needs to be, too. Explore this list of inclusive resources.
Explore vital DV organizations and gender-based violence directories, offering support, information, and connections for those affected by abuse.
Language is powerful, and as we've discovered, it can be an essential tool to explain, escape, and fight domestic abuse. The words we choose aren't merely tools for communication; they serve as the catalysts for change and reflection.
We hope you have found the explanations of sensitive terminology and the resources we have listed helpful. Ultimately, the most important point of this article is to use language that supports and uplifts those who have experienced domestic abuse to get help and feel empowered. It is always possible to get help, and helping others learn the power of their words and language is the first step.
About the Author
Sarah Perowne
Sarah Perowne is a language and education specialist with over 10 years of experience in teaching and content creation. She has worked with students of all ages in various teaching methods, including those with disabilities and ASD. She sports an acute knowledge and skillset in teaching English as a second/foreign language (ESL) English Language Arts and creating content for online teaching resources, articles, and podcasts.