| Clue | Source | Date |
|---|---|---|
| Lead-in to "done that" | Premier Sunday | 12 Dec 2021 |
| "I can relate" | LA Times Daily | 31 Jul 2021 |
| 'I can relate' | The Washington Post | 31 Jul 2021 |
| 'Done that' preceder | USA Today | 30 Mar 2020 |
| Empathetic comment | New York Times | 26 Jun 2019 |
| Empathetic comment | ||
| ''I can relate'' | Newsday | 29 Dec 2018 |
| 'I can relate' | Wall Street Journal | 10 Apr 2018 |
| "I can relate" | ||
| 'I know just how you feel' | Wall Street Journal | 08 Aug 2017 |
| ___ done that: 2 wds | ||
| With 61-Across, "Nothing new to me!" | ||
| "I sympathize" |