| Clue | Source | Date |
|---|---|---|
| Best-selling self-help book subtitled 'Time-Tested Secrets for Capturing the Heart of Mr. Right' | New York Times | 22 Nov 2020 |
| Formal guidelines to follow | The Washington Post | 01 Apr 2016 |
| Things to obey, like 36-Across and 8-Down | LA Times Daily | 31 Jan 2015 |
| Things to obey, like 36-Across and 8-Down | ||
| 1995 bestseller in which #23 is "Don't Date a Married Man" | ||
| Things to follow |